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《山陽太守汝南薛恭祖》

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1 山陽太守... :
山陽太守汝南薛恭祖,喪其妻,不哭,臨殯,於棺上大言:「自同恩好,四十餘年,服食祿賜,男女成人,幸不為夭,夫復何恨哉!今相及也。」

2 山陽太守... :
謹按:《禮》為適妻杖,重於宗也。妻者、既齊於己,澄灑酒,以養姑舅,契闊中饋,經理蚕織,垂統傳重,其為恩篤勤至矣。且鳥獸之微,尚有回翔之思、啁噍之痛。何有死喪之感,終始永絕,而曾無惻容?當內崩傷,外自矜飭,此為矯情,偽之至也。俚語:「婦死腹悲,唯身知之。」又言「妻非禮所與」,此何禮也?豈不悖哉!大尉山陽王襲與諸子並杖,太傅汝南陳蕃、袁隗皆制衰絰,列在服位,躬入隧,哀以送之,近得禮中,王公諸子魏杖,亦過矣。

URN: ctp:fengsutongyi/qian-li/shan-yang-tai-shou-ru-nan