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《山阳太守汝南薛恭祖》

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1 山阳太守... :
山阳太守汝南薛恭祖,丧其妻,不哭,临殡,于棺上大言:“自同恩好,四十馀年,服食禄赐,男女成人,幸不为夭,夫复何恨哉!今相及也。”

2 山阳太守... :
谨按:《礼》为适妻杖,重于宗也。妻者、既齐于己,澄洒酒,以养姑舅,契阔中馈,经理蚕织,垂统传重,其为恩笃勤至矣。且鸟兽之微,尚有回翔之思、啁噍之痛。何有死丧之感,终始永绝,而曾无恻容?当内崩伤,外自矜饬,此为矫情,伪之至也。俚语:“妇死腹悲,唯身知之。”又言“妻非礼所与”,此何礼也?岂不悖哉!大尉山阳王袭与诸子并杖,太傅汝南陈蕃、袁隗皆制衰绖,列在服位,躬入隧,哀以送之,近得礼中,王公诸子魏杖,亦过矣。

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