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Condition 1: Contains text "夫順非它寬裕之謂也" Matched:1.
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列女傳

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14 列女傳:
敬慎第三:陰陽殊性,男女異行。陽以剛為德,陰以柔為用,男以彊為貴,女以弱為美。故鄙諺有云:「生男如狼,猶恐其尪;生女如鼠,猶恐其虎。」然則修身莫若敬,避彊莫若順。故曰敬順之道,婦人之大禮也。夫敬非它,持久之謂也。夫順非它,寬裕之謂也。持久者,知止足也。寬裕者,尚恭下也。夫婦之好,終身不離。房室周旋,遂生媟黷。媟黷既生,語言過矣。語言既過,縱恣必作。縱恣既作,則侮夫之心生矣。此由於不知止足者也。夫事有曲直,言有是非。直者不能不爭,曲者不能不訟。訟爭既施,則有忿怒之事矣。此由於不尚恭下者也。侮夫不節,譴呵從之;忿怒不止,楚撻從之。夫為夫婦者,義以和親,恩以好合,楚撻既行,何義之存?譴呵既宣,何恩之有?恩義俱廢,夫婦離矣。

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