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Condition 1: Contains text "女父對云某之子憃愚又弗能教吾子命之某不敢辭" Matched:1.
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公侯大夫士婚禮

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周制,婚禮下達,納采用鴈。達,通也。將合婚,必先媒氏下通其言,乃使納采。采,擇也。鴈取順陰陽往來之義,如有從夫之道。主人筵於戶西,西上,右几。主人,女父也。筵,為神布席,將以先祖遺體許人,故受於禰廟。席西上,右設几,神不統於人。席有首尾。使者玄端至,使者,夫家之屬,若群吏使往來者。儐者出,請事。曰:「吾子有惠,貺室某也。吾子,女父也。有惠,明下達。貺,賜也。室,妻也。某,婿名。某有先人之禮,使某請納采。」上某,婿父名。下某,使者名。。」吾子,使者。主人如賓服,迎於門外,再拜。賓不答拜,揖入。不答拜,奉使不敢當其盛。賓升西階,當阿東面。阿,棟也。入堂深,示親。使者致命曰:「敢納采。」主人阼階上,北面再拜。授於楹間,南面。授於楹間,明為合好,其節同也。南面並授之。賓降出,主人降,授老鴈。老,群吏之尊者。又執鴈,請問名,如初禮。曰:「某既受命,將加諸卜,敢請女為誰氏?」某,使名也。誰氏,謙也,不必斥其主人之女。對曰:「吾子有命,且以備數而擇之,某不敢辭,曰某氏。」儐者出,請醴賓曰:「子為事故至於某室,某有先人之禮,請醴從者。」言從者,謙不敢斥。賓對曰:「某既得將事矣,敢辭。」儐者曰:「先人之禮,敢固以請。」賓曰:「某辭不得命,敢不從。」醴賓以醴酒,薦以脯醢,略如一獻之禮。禮畢,出,主人送於門外,再拜。

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