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35 | 传: | 若范丐对秦客,至武子击之,折其委筓,恶其掩人也。夫人有善,鲜不自伐,有能者,寡不自矜,伐则掩人,矜则陵人,掩人者,人亦掩之,陵人者,人亦陵之,故三郤为戮于晋,王叔负罪于周,不唯矜善自伐,好争之咎乎。故君子不自称,非以让人,恶其盖人也。夫能屈以为伸,让以为得,弱以为强,鲜不遂矣。夫毁誉,爱恶之原,而祸福之机也。是以圣人慎之。孔子曰:吾之于人,谁毁谁誉,如有所誉,必有所试,以圣人之德,犹尚如此,况庸庸之徒,而轻毁誉哉。昔伏波将军马援戒其兄子,言闻人之恶,当如闻父母之名,耳可得闻,口不可得道也。斯戒至矣。人或毁己,当退而求之于身,若己有可毁之行,则彼言当矣。若己无可毁之行,则彼言妄矣。当则无怨于彼,妄则无害于身,又何反报焉。且闻人毁己而忿者,恶丑声之加人也。人报者滋甚,不如默而自修也。谚曰:救寒莫如重裘,止谤莫如自修,斯言信矣。 |
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